Aaaand this is that more general linkspam I promised a few days ago!
From Kris Lignan: My Sheppard is Asexual, and That’s Okay
In games, of course, there’s not just the expectation that love and sex are interchangeable, but the assumption that sex a la carte is somehow expected. We can attribute some of this to the straight male point of view behind the design of a lot of these games, but really, it’s an attitude endemic of most of contemporary Western culture.
From asexy beast: Coming out to those “situational friends” …or not.
Situational friends can be the hardest people to come out to. The level of emotional investment is fairly low, and yet you still have to spend a lot of time with them, making things difficult if their reaction is negative.
From Jezebel: I Am Asexual (and It’s Awesome!)
There’s a devaluation that happens with relationships that are intimate, but not necessarily sexual in nature, and I hear that devaluation every time I get asked if I have “someone special” in my life. The answer to that question, of course, is “YES!” I have several special people in my life. People whom I love deeply and am very intimate with, rely upon for support, support in turn, and consider very close partners. They are not romantic or sexual partners, but that doesn’t make our relationships less valid or less strong.
Asexuality is not an invention. It’s not lesser. It’s not uninteresting. It just is, and right now, Sherlock Holmes is the strongest representative we have.
Let’s not allow that to be erased, taken down or dismissed.
The number of implicitly asexual characters in all of fiction could probably be counted on two hands; explicitly asexual ones are even rarer. So while a handful of overused sexual plotlines aren’t relevant to them, a shitload of others become available that have never been used before ever. Any writer who tackled an asexual plotline would automatically be a pioneer. How is this boring?
From eccecorinna: Asexual/Aromantic Show and Tell: Who’s Interested?
As I’ve read through the posts on my dash, I’ve noticed a lot of people alluding to aro/ace characters in their original works. This makes me both excited and curious.
Why? Because I want to hear more about your original characters who are asexual and/or aromantic!
From Asexual News: Web Series Seeks Actors to Play Asexual Roles
Producer Billy Reil issued a casting call forThe Coffee Pit, a new web series. Reil seeks Asexual actors to star in the new series.
From Charlie the Unicorn: This is where a title goes.
Actually, that is my solution. We all turn on Steven Moffat, because apparently he doesn’t care for interpreting Sherlock as asexual or as gay. And that’s the real problem – a character who very well could be either, for whom there is canonical evidence for being very decidedly not straight, he has taken time, more than one, to re-assert as unreservedly heterosexual.
From romanticscientist: In which Jen rants about the importance of Queerplatonic
When every other post on tumblr is some form of “they’re so obviously gay for each other” I think it’s very valid for aces to feel constantly on the defensive about it and to pick at other people’s wording carefully and ask them to check their privilege.
From Q: Asexual activist David Jay on Q
Jian talks to asexual activist and the founder of the Asexual Visibility and Education Network David Jay about his personal and political struggle, and what asexuality can reveal about human intimacy.
From BBC UK: What is it like to be asexual?
Twenty-one-year-old Jenni Goodchild does not experience sexual attraction, but in an increasingly sexualised society what is it like to be asexual?
From Lashings of Ginger Beer: Comments on Consent (Based on the BBC2 Article on Asexuality)
As some of you may know, I recently appeared both in a TV program on BBC3 and in a linked article on their news website. Most of the response I’ve had has either been positive, or curious, but here I’m going to discuss the negatives.
Not technically about asexuality but interesting
From Psych Central: Part 2: Social Scientists Do Not Hear What Singles Are Telling Them
There is a great big elephant in the room and the authors seem unaware of it. If they took their hands away from their eyes and their fingers out of their ears, they might notice the elephant saying this: Single people have social support.