I totally understand that and will keep it in mind! It really sucks to have a stalker make your handle feel unsafe, especially if you’ve used it for so long.

I found my spoons! It took a couple of weeks, due to a lot of personal issues, but we got there. I finally created a blog about asexuality focusing on romantic relationships.
http://hackingtheheart.wordpress.com/

Er, I hate to do this, because it feels weird and I used the same username for ten years, but if you ever link to my new blog, would you mind referring to me by my new handle (Antissa)? I have had some trouble with a stalker recently, and would greatly prefer that my new blog be as separate from my old handle as possible.

I also quite like the idea of a group blog for asexuality. I’m still sad FWD has stopped: for all that there are now many blogs out there about disability, they fulfilled a role none of those blogs do: they had a larger voice that could advertise certain things much better, and were a good place for signalboosting stuff like carnivals. I’m definitely missing a lot more stuff now, for all that I try to go the rounds and scrounge on blogrolls and such. Group blogs are sometimes better than feed readers. I depend on bigger group blogs and linkspams (on smaller blogs as well) for access to many things I’d never have found on my own.

I’m not able to anything regularly, including putting up blog posts, and there is a lot of stuff I still want to write about many topics.

If there’s anything I can do to make you more comfortable in this space, please let me know?

I’d be interested in an asexuality blog carnival.